THE BLOG

What do you really want for your life? Jun 09, 2025

On the journey of self-discovery it can be easy to fall into the trap of self-surveillance thinly disguised as self-development. I have been guilty of this too and really, it was me being in a place o...

Continue Reading...
How does it feel to be you? May 30, 2025

I remember one day back in 2018, I was driving home from work and for some reason it occurred to me how I was feeling. I had a pretty run-of-the-mill day at work, my home life was fine etc etc etc. No...

Continue Reading...
If you are just focussing on the numbers, what are you missing out on? May 26, 2025

Breaking my obsession with numbers was honestly the best thing I could have ever done for myself, my self-esteem and my weight loss journey. When I was trying to lose weight, I used to weigh myself li...

Continue Reading...
Happiness comes first. May 21, 2025

You think that when you lose weight, when you have your eating under control, you will feel happy. You think that when you are a size 10 and you fit back into those jeans COMFORTABLY, yep that is the ...

Continue Reading...
Sit with it. Breathe. Find the gold. May 19, 2025

There is an incredible power in feeling your authentic feelings and learning to sit with difficult emotions. Emotions that we are taught are wrong to have, take anger for example. As women, growing up...

Continue Reading...
Undo your conditioning, undo your weight. May 17, 2025

“Why can't you just do it? Why can't you stick to healthy eating? Or stick to a diet? Why is it so hard when you are so good at so much else in your life? Why is it you just lose all sense and reason ...

Continue Reading...
If you have to fight to fit in, you are in the wrong place baby. May 13, 2025

It is perfectly okay that you are not for everyone. Why? Because then not everyone has to be for you either. I used to believe that I could be friends with anyone and getting along well with people wa...

Continue Reading...
It is your life and you deserve to be happy. May 08, 2025

You do not have to be everything to everyone. When you do, you set yourself up for failure. You find a constant stream of reasons to feel like you are letting everyone else down. And, more importantly...

Continue Reading...
I know you are worth it, but do you? May 06, 2025

“Mindset Growth’ is really another way of saying ‘inner growth’, ‘self-development’ or ‘spiritual growth’. A great catch-all would be ‘growing who you are as a human being’ because it is really about ...

Continue Reading...
It is just food. May 03, 2025

I want you to realise it is just food. It does not have the capacity to make you feel better about yourself, YOU have the capacity to make you feel better about yourself. If you feel like you are turn...

Continue Reading...
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life hating yourself? May 01, 2025

We turn to food, alcohol, drugs, shopping...there is a myriad of toxic choices we could use to fill a void, to fill a gaping hole. We seek to fill this hole with something that makes us feel better an...

Continue Reading...